Was watching Mowry a few days ago and I started to wonder why girls do this to themselves. A girl came on the show and was yelling that some guy was the father of her 11 months old baby. She had a lot of gel in her hair, sat like a guy though she was wearing heels and all. She just kept yelling. The results came in and funny enough the guy was not the father. She couldn't cry so she kept laughing.
Another girl came in with kinda the same story but in her case, she had slept with four guys (including a guy and his brother) and she wasn't sure who the father was. She was a bit down, as she talked she started to cry.The four guys came on the show. One of them was already giving her money to take care of her child but like the first case, none of them fathered her child.
It just makes me wonder what is happening to the world. Is it actually that hard to keep oneself together? Do we even value ourselves anymore? I know people fall and mistakes are being made once in a while but I would think everyone would be aware of certain things by now.
Do we first have to have AIDS to realize that we don't need to sleep around? Do our family members have to die from obesity before we realize that we need to get active and eat right? Does a girl have to be a baby mama at 16 to realize that she needs to start taking responsibility for her actions? Do we exactly have to get to the extreme first before we reflect on our lives? True, it is easier said than done but do we even think of these things? Do we even make the effort to change or do we just say it is a crazy world and bad things happen. Have we lost so much self esteem that we need to fall into a pit first to realize that life will throw so much at us and but we need to keep standing?
God took time to create you and He made you beautiful. Why would you want to destroy something that so much was invested in? I think we should reflect on our lives once in a while. Find out if you have accomplished those goals you have been dying to achieve, check if there is personal growth and development, are you better than you were? So take a walk, keep a journal, converse with a close friend, check yourself.
Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.
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